The things that friends say that make you quiver

And sometimes the hardest of all is when it is actually what you really want to hear and then have absolutely no idea the right way to act on.

The piece of information that you didn't dare hope was true, but that leaves you no closer to knowing how to act on it, cause all it does is makes the hope more real, focuses it and leaves you quivering between staying with the hope and trying to act and finding that the hope was unfounded, that whilst the information was true, it just didn't mean so for you. So that whilest what you truely want might be out there, this particular possibility of achieving it isn't, and that will hurt and hurt hard.

But it's better to know so you don't vainly try to chase and instead allow the focus to move and to hopefully find the actuality rather than just another possibility.

But then how to ask, how to broach the topic without the question ruining the possibility?

And now to bed, that last question unanswered.